2021.12.02 22:17 jemappellelara I feel like a shit friend for not texting my uni mates first.
So I’m into my first two months of first year at university, and I made a wide range of friends from everywhere (flatmates, coursemates, others in my accommodation, people that go to my uni). Naturally, I started to become closer with certain people more than others (based on how often I see them). The weird thing is, I don’t text people I’m closest with every day because I always feel as though I’m bothering them if I were to even say a simple “hello, you alright?”, yet when we are face to face, I could have a smooth, consistent, flowing conversation without it being a silent or awkward moment. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, maybe I just don’t like texting?
The only thing is, when I text said people, it’s only when I feel like texting them, if I “need”/“want” something from them, or there’s something urgent. I didn’t see this as a big deal at first, but now I realise maybe this is what is preventing me from having close. One time, I went out for coffee with a girl in my course and then I now barely talk to her unless it’s to see if she’s going out tonight. Another thing holding me back from texting is the fact that people don’t text me first anyways. Therefore, I don’t feel that they too are interested in me as much as I am them, probably because they see I don’t text them so they don’t bother.
I’m not an introvert by any means; I like to talk to people, enjoy myself with good company, and like to hang out and always down for a night out. However, this problem I have is so bad to the point where I haven’t even talked to most people from back home yet. I feel like a shit from for only texting when I feel I need to text instead of reaching out to people myself.
Is it normal to have a closer connection with someone when you see them in person than by text or social media? Or is it a dick move to only talk to people when you see them but not any further? Should I make the effort to reach out to people more? Would this make people be more willing to text me? Any and all advise is needed and welcomed!
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2021.12.02 22:17 JustAHouseWife My Australian Shepard plays to ruff (lol) with me. Need advice
I have a male Australian Shepard, his is just over a year old. Great dog, very smart. When he is playing with my wife he is sooo gentle and sweet but when i play with him his eyes light up and he will go crazy, jump on me, bite me, bark and just all around go for blood. We have our first baby coming in a few days and i want to get some skills to nip this or at least address it before baby gets here.
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2021.12.02 22:17 WashedBot Too Much Dip LIVE: Week 13
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2021.12.02 22:17 EvilYetti I foraged today, but could use some ID verification (edibility) help
2021.12.02 22:17 squishyg This not-so-baby carrot
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2021.12.02 22:17 The_One_Who_Sees What are some amazing careers that students/young professionals aren't aware of that they should be?
2021.12.02 22:17 Bonus1Fact [News Shorts] 'Very different beast': Victoria's law institute hails changes to pandemic bill ¦ Sky News Australia
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2021.12.02 22:17 Shadow_Ban_Bytes Edmonton police officer handed $2,000 fine for assaulting Indigenous man, avoids jail time
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2021.12.02 22:17 relentless_tx13 Iso highlord ammy
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2021.12.02 22:17 basithuda Is my Logitech G27 holding me back?
I dug up my old G27 4 days ago and I’ve been churning laps in the MX-5 series. I’m down to 1:38.8 with a theoretical best of 1:38.4. I can consistently lap low 1:39s but do struggle with the brakes to consistently lap 1:38s.
Is a potentiometer brake pedal really that bad or do I just need to practice more?
I have 7 starts so far with 2 wins and a podium. I got disconnected leading another race by a mile.
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2021.12.02 22:17 gifmeuk New trending GIF on Giphy
2021.12.02 22:17 dal3y42x Martha Hunt
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2021.12.02 22:17 fountn hasan looks back at ludwig’s YouTube announcement
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2021.12.02 22:17 OverlordPoodle How would you rate the Kengan Vs. Purgatory Arc?
Out of 5.
With 5 being the highest and 1 the lowest.
I'll go first.
---Some good fights (Lu Tian, Julius, CHADtoku for example)
---mostly bad or blah fights (Falcon, Lolong, Terashi (shivers in disappointment))
---Too much hype and promise and not enough (JUSTICE) execution on those hype and plot threads...
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2021.12.02 22:17 JO10EY14 How to get over a long distance relationship when you never lost feelings?
I’ll start with some background details about the relationship. I will put my main question below if you don’t want any background details.
I am a university student living in the UK. In my first year at uni there was an American girl studying abroad in our accommodation. This was back in the start of 2020. She moved in during January and we hit it off. Unfortunately COVID happened and she had to go back to the US. I was lucky enough that she wanted to stay in contact and we started a long distance relationship, consisting mainly of FaceTime calls. I had a truly wonderful time in this relationship which continued without any major hiccups until September this year. Over the last month of the relationship she was very busy, working as lifeguard summer job, preparing and moving in for her final year of university. Our contact over phone calls and texts became less frequent and I suspected a small loss of feelings on her part but didn’t ask up about it much as I knew she was very busy. Despite this from my perspective the relationship was still going well but one night she called me which began normally with jokes and having a good time (in fact I remember thinking how much I was enjoying the call and it was what I had been missing as of late) but she said we should talk and laid out how she was feeling. She felt it best to end the relationship as she was concerned how busy she would continue to be once school started, she didn’t feel she could fulfil the normal parts of a relationship and was concerned about when we would even be able to see each other (which we had not done since her leaving in March 2020) due to travel restrictions. I hold no resentment towards her and completely respect these reasons. After a week I spoke with her again after having time to collect my thoughts. I realised that no matter how much I wanted to continue the relationship that has to be wanted by both people. During the talk I did ask to stay in contact as she will always be a very special person to me and I didn’t want to lose that completely. She agreed. After a couple of weeks with a handful of friendly messages between each other she stopped and hasn’t been in contact since.
IF you don’t care about any background details! I realise I have rambled a lot there but my main point is that with it being a long distance relationship with no big argument or blowout that one person decided to end. How do you get over someone that you really loved in a happy and caring relationship which just ended? I often find myself thinking about her and the many great memories we had. Being back at uni I have tried to get out and meet new people (I realise it hasn’t been very long) but nothing close to the emotions I would feel with her.
Any advice on this would be appreciated
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2021.12.02 22:17 colossus_galio Moonbeam dissolved? Retired? What does it mean?
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2021.12.02 22:17 UmbraMuninn Still an absolute bop
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2021.12.02 22:17 Super_Saiyajin Yooooo they did surgery on a banana!
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2021.12.02 22:17 Captain_Church [18m] just turned 18 a couple weeks ago, so now I can legally do shit. What kinda shit idk. But uh hmu cus I'm bored as hell and just went through a breakout like a week ago so that's kinda fresh anyways cys lol
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2021.12.02 22:17 Obewyn India Cybersecurity Market is Expected to Boom
2021.12.02 22:17 NickroNancer When Do We Get Endwalker Full Access Codes?
Bought my copy via the Square Enix story. I already have my early access, but what about the full access one?
While I'm at it. I have a Discord member who doesn't look into things themselves, so if you know the answer for Steam users as well I would tremendously appreciate it.
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2021.12.02 22:17 thememelordH [Says something stupidly repetitive and unfunny]